Tuesday, September 23, 2003

Half way through to the completion of my sociology assignment. Feeling abit unfair that my housemate got an extension for this asignment, but anyway, i will show him that "I don't need any extension"... Last night after the ISA meeting, the comittee went down to Chen's restaurant for dinner except Webmaster- Yanchyuan, our President- Richmond and our Welfare officer- Zeliha. The dinner was great and we had alot of fun and jokes and funny weird experiences on the bus...The following is just my opinion- Sometimes i just feel that to certain extend, it is not good to tell our friends what to do in their life, because simply we are just friends and we have no rights to "tell" somebody how they should live their life, because how they want to live their life is basically depends on them. People might feel offended often. Even though i might have more experiences than other people in certain areas, but doesn't meant that i have the rights to "tell" someone how to live thier life. Likewise others might have more experiences than me in other areas as well. I think the best way to due with this is, we should only be a neutral person and advice them in a very courtesy manner instead of "telling" someone how you should do or what you should do in ther life or dairy life style. Of course if my friend seek me for help, i will only advice them, not like teaching them how should he/she have to do. Even though among best friends, it is always very hard to put ourselves in other people's shoes and to understand one's situation, simply because all of us are differnent. Although we are human, under the same species, but all of us from all differnent kinds of families, cultures, religions, characteristics, the way we think and the way we live.

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